I went to Big Island Hawai’i back in 2012 for a visionary art conference. Little did I know that the highlight of the visit would be to meet a Hawaiian Prince named Kamilo. To be honest I was not entirely in a good place when I went, a lot of undesirable stuff had happened in my life leading up to this trip, life’s lesson are not always pleasant. I carried this with me and it showed on my face. One day I was walking through a parking lot where a group of individuals were hanging out. One off those individuals saw me and was calling out. I really did not want to talk to him, nor did I was believe he was talking to me. The next moment the individual walked right towards me. He had an ear to ear smile on his face, and I recall almost immediately my guard fell. He walked right up to me and gave me the biggest hug, a true bear hug times ten. He also had a fairly infectious laugh, which was one of the most joyous laughs I have ever heard in my entire life. His first words were, ‘ Aloha! Do you think you can buy me 5 cheeseburgers from McDonald’s’? I was about to say no, as in my head I had a million reasons why I would not eat a McDonalds cheeseburger. For reasons I still do not fully understand, some kind of higher force, or Self, said yes! So I left him and carried on my journey. As I walked up a hill, there stood the golden arches drenched by the golden light of the sun. I entered the building and immediately I noticed a painting on the wall. This was unusual as I didn’t expect to see a painting in a franchise chain such as this. The painting was perfectly lit by a sunbeam spotlight coming through a window. As I approached the painting I stopped and took in it’s details. It was a child throwing a fishing net out to the ocean. Beside the child was a ghostlike figure of an elder also casting a net. It hit me like a bolt of lightening, this was sign if I had ever seen one. I proceeded to order 5 cheeseburgers and quickly returned to the parking lot. When the individual saw me with the McDonalds bag in hand he let out the most infectious laugh, and I actually cracked a smile. I went to the group in the corner of the parking lot where my new friend was sitting. Upon first glance they were a little intimidating. I had no idea why I was doing this. I just had to trust the situation. I sat down with them and handed out the burgers, and we had a meal together. My friend introduced himself as Kamilo. He was a Hawaiian elder who just so happened to have a ukulele with him that was of the finest craftsmanship. We ate our burgers and pretty much laughed the whole time, truly enjoying the moment, no judgements, and no small talk. I knew I was safe and in good company. We finished our burgers and I told my friend that I must carry on before the sun falls behind the horizon. He understood and said that we would meet again. I knew this to be true and got on my way. I ended up going to the conference which was on another part of the island. It was interesting, a visionary art conference in the most posh hotel I have ever stayed in. The Hilton hotel was next to a beautiful bay that massive pods of dolphins would travel through. it was so unbelievably alive with marine and bird life, that I nearly took it to be a dream. From what I had heard through the grapevine, a Hilton family member had some kind of ‘experience’ that led to them hosting this conference. It was somewhat bizarre to see a bunch of hippies, burners (Burningman people), and the like hanging out in such a posh environment. After three days of this I was ready to get back to my grungy hotel that I was staying in when I had first arrived. I had a couple days left on the island and wondered if I would see my friend Kamilo. I. hopped on my skate and went for a cruise through town. I didn’t see my friend, so I headed to the beach and went for a much anticipated swim in the ocean. Following my swim I skated down the main road and saw a large tree surrounded by coral sand. It was nearing sunset and there were several Hawaiian canoes out in the ocean, along with spinner dolphins putting on an aerial show. It was dreamy. I decided to go check out the scene and wouldn’t you know it I heard the laugh of my friend Kamilo. He had spotted me! I had no idea that he was sitting with a group of youth behind the very tree I had noticed from the road. He called me over and so I went to join them. When I arrived at the spot the kids were not happy that I was there. ‘Haole in the house’ and ‘why is this haole man here’ made for an awkward moment. Kamilo immediately told them to make room, and they reluctantly accommodated. I sat down and the tourists world that I had known vanished. Kamilo began to strum his ukulele. I looked out to the ocean and the Hawaiian canoes, the ocean, the dolphins, all seemed to be in perfect harmony with the chords Kamilo played. I was speechless. Up until that time I thought I knew a little bit about the Hawaiian culture, and in the moment I realised I had known nothing. Kamilo was giving me a rare glimpse into their world. A world which a tourist either never sees or has to pay for it, and this is why the kids were annoyed. Soon there were no words spoken, and this went on until the sun went down. Once the sun dropped Kamilo told the kids to get going and they left. He said to me that he was their Uncle, and it was his job to give them guidance and pass on the stories of his ancestors to them. He also told me that I had to be cautious with them, for reasons I will not go into here. All I can say is it was very eye opening. Kamilo then invited me to join him where he stayed and I told him I was staying at a hotel across the street, and he’d be welcome to join me if he wanted. He agreed and we set off to my room. Along the way we picked up some local fruit and a couple beers. That night he played songs and shared stories of his life and his lineage, it was magical. He explained that the songs he played had been passed down to him from his grand mother. This is how they transmute information from one generation to the next. Their stories are the music. I began to understand as my experience on the beach was exactly that. During the visit he let me record a song about the seasons. He told me to play it whenever life was getting a little crazy, going on to say it would reconnect me to the magic and beauty of life. I told him I was forever grateful, and we spent the rest of the night sharing stories and laughs. I remembered the painting I had seen at Mcdoanlds. The old man, as a spirit, casting the fishing net next to the young child who was also casting the net, ulua pole! Life is full of surprises and including people who show up at the perfect time. Whenever life is getting heavy I play the song, to remind myself of that time, and the wisdom that Kamilo shared. I think this is true art, the passing along of story from one generation to the next, and a light for when we feel were in the dark.
Recently I have been working on a video grant project called ‘The Valley FLow’. I happen to find Kamilo’s song when I was going through my archives and paired it to this video. The Aloha spirit meets the East Kootenay mountain life. Enjoy.